Finding Faith When All You See Are Problems
A Note from Carol: One of the most fulfilling aspects of my ministry is the privilege of partnering with others who have dedicated their lives to proclaiming the hope and truth found in God’s Word. I believe we are in a season where God is amplifying the voices of those uniquely called to inspire, encourage, and equip the Church. Today, I’m thrilled to introduce you to Dr. Alan Weissenbacher. He is not only a gifted theologian but also a passionate communicator whose insights challenge and uplift all who hear him. With a deep love for Scripture and a heart for God’s people, he has the rare ability to illuminate biblical truths in a way that feels both profound and personal. It is an honor to share my blog platform with him, and I know you will be blessed by his words.
Meet Dr. Alan Weissenbacher
He is a theologian, pastor, and author with a deep passion for unpacking the timeless truths of Scripture. With a Ph.D. in Biblical Studies and decades of ministry experience, he has devoted his life to teaching and equipping others to walk in faith and purpose. Known for his engaging teaching style and heartfelt approach, Dr. Alan has a unique ability to make complex biblical concepts accessible and relevant to everyday life.
Do you feel like you are under siege from life? Job problems, relationship problems, health problems, loss, and bad news from all quarters? Do you feel like depression and anxiety are constant companions, and you are just waiting for the next shoe to drop? Do your circumstances make it seem like God is against you or that God is not love?
I have been feeling under siege. Kids with medical problems followed by an upstairs plumbing leak that wrecked stuff both upstairs and downstairs. Then a week later there is another unrelated leak that turned our downstairs into a wading pool. Once the damaged areas were removed, we found a 3rd, smaller leak. Oh, and now that the walls are open, is that severe termite damage over there? Some 2x4s are completely eaten through. How is this wall even standing? And mold inspection finds mold in areas unrelated to the leak. We now need to repair those areas too. So now my family is living out of hotels and in the living rooms of generous friends while things get fixed.
Right now I am tempted to get depressed, wondering how many curveballs will be thrown my way and what new problem will surface. This, however, is not living in faith. God says to have joy in trials (James 1:2-4) and to rejoice always (Philippians 4:4). How do I control my thoughts (2 Cor. 10:5) in the tough times of life so that I can live faithful and positive?
We only see what we are trained to see, and then that is all we see. This is the danger of dwelling on problems.
The paths in the brain we most often use become stronger, like exercising a muscle. These paths become the highways that the brain automatically takes whenever life is challenging. Eventually we create a whole mental framework out of our most used brain paths that organizes information about our world. We end up training our brains to only see certain things. And if we are dwelling on problems, soon, all we see are the problems.
The depressed can end up only noticing depressing things: seeing only negative about themselves, the world around them, and the future – thinking that things won’t get better.
This is one reason why it is important to praise when things are rough, so the rough doesn’t end up forming our brains into a rut that is challenging to get out of. But what if we are already in that rut with our brains seeing only the problems and experiencing ANTS, automatic negative thoughts?
First, we need to work on our focus. We must deliberately turn our brains away from the negative and focus on the positive to build up some strong brain pathways for hope and faith. If we repeat this enough, hope and faith will become the large highway that the brain will automatically turn to, and the depressed highway will weaken. It isn’t easy and takes work, but the work is worth it, and it gets easier over time. Old pathways are worn and easy to tread. You must continually choose a new path before it becomes the easier one to walk. Sometimes we meet people who always see God working in their lives? Are they just more blessed? No, those people have trained themselves to see God working. With training, you can see where God is working in your life too.
Do I focus on all my problems that are happening, seemingly one after another? Or do I look at it as God helping us take care of all the problems at once. It would be worse if we fully repaired one leak, then had to demolish stuff again for a second one, then demolish again for the third, and then again for termites. Could all these problems be God's way of blessing us with only needing one large repair job instead of several smaller ones and annoying the insurance company with claim after claim? Insurance companies don't appreciate it when you join their frequent flier program.
Second, I find that it helps to change the way I pray. Instead of praying focused on the problem, I pray focused on the solution. For example, instead of praying, “God don’t let me be depressed,” say, “God help me to have joy.” It’s like I tell my clients, “Don’t pray, ‘God keep me away from alcohol.’ Instead pray, ‘God help me be sober.’” The first prayer focuses on the problem, potentially strengthening the problem highway in the brain. The second prayer focuses on the good, hopefully turning brain paths in that positive direction. The prayers are for the same thing, just one looks backward at the problem, and the other looks forward to the solution. And we all know from Lot’s wife how looking backward turns out. Instead, pray forward. It is good for your brain.
And third, if we are in a rut where we can’t see the good things that could break us out of the rut, we need to surround ourselves with so many positive messages so that some will stick and change our brain in a good direction: deliberately remembering times God answered prayer (and maybe we need to write it down when God does answer so we don’t forget it), memorizing positive Scriptural truths, and forcing ourselves to find things to be thankful for and then dwelling on those things. Set a timer if you need to! Think about this thankful or this verse for a certain number of minutes and keep at it.
Right now in my stormy season, the verse I am continually returning to is Isaiah 41:10.
“Do not yield to fear, for I am always near. Never turn your gaze from me, for I am your faithful God. I will infuse you with my strength and help you in every situation. I will hold you firmly with my victorious right hand.”
May this verse give you hope, too.
Facing Depression with Dr. Alan Weissenbacher
Welcome to 2025 and a new year of the Significant Women Podcast with Carol McLeod! As listeners and friends of the ministry know, Carol is no stranger to the challenges of depression. Since the month of January is known to have the highest rates of depression each year, we at Carol McLeod Ministries figured it’d be the ideal time to discuss this difficult topic. Today’s guest is a friend of the show, Dr. Alan Weissenbacher! He is the author of The Brain Change Program and has published chapters in books on the subjects of science, religion, and ethics with Vernon Press and ATF Press. Listen in as he shares about the causes of and approaches to overcoming depression from both his professional expertise and personal story.
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