Pray. Lead. Empower: Transforming Your Life Through Faith & Confidence
A Note from Carol: One of the greatest joys of my ministry is celebrating voices that share God’s hope and truth with boldness and grace. Today, I’m honored to share this blog space with Kelley Tyan. Kelley is a powerhouse of faith and resilience—an author, speaker, and coach who is passionate about helping women live with intention, strength, and unwavering faith. Her story and message challenge us to rise above life’s struggles and step into the calling God has placed on our lives. With authenticity and fierce encouragement, Kelley reminds us that our past does not define us—and that with Jesus, victory is always possible. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unworthy, or unsure of your next step, Kelley’s voice will point you straight to the heart of God—where your true identity and purpose are found.
Pray. Lead. Empower: Transforming Your Life Through Faith & Confidence
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." – Philippians 4:13
Have you ever felt like life keeps pulling you in a thousand directions, making it difficult to stay grounded in your faith and confidence? In a world full of distractions, uncertainties, and self-doubt, it’s easy to forget who you are and whose you are. That’s why I created the Pray Lead Empower method—to help you navigate life with unwavering faith, intentional leadership, and daily empowerment through God’s truth.
This isn’t just a method; it’s a way of life. It’s about praying through every situation, leading yourself with clarity and confidence, and empowering your thoughts daily with words that breathe life into your spirit.
Let’s break it down so you can start applying this powerful framework today.
1. PRAY: Inviting God Into Every Moment
Prayer is not just something we do in the morning or before bed—it’s a constant conversation with God. When we make prayer our first response instead of our last resort, we invite God into every moment of our lives.
Philippians 4:13 reminds us that our strength doesn’t come from our own abilities, but through Christ. That means we don’t have to carry our worries alone. When you feel overwhelmed, unsure, or afraid, pray first.
How to Pray Through Your Day:
Morning Surrender: Start your day by thanking God and asking Him to lead your steps. Pray: “Lord, guide my thoughts, my actions, and my words today. Let me walk in Your strength and wisdom.”
Midday Check-In: When challenges arise, pause and pray instead of reacting out of frustration or fear.
Evening Reflection: End your day with gratitude, reflecting on where you saw God move.
The more you pray, the more you shift your focus from your problems to God’s power.
2. LEAD: Taking Ownership of Your Mind & Actions
One of the biggest challenges in life is learning to lead yourself well. If you don’t take control of your thoughts, emotions, and actions every single day, the world will do it for you.
True leadership starts with self-leadership. It’s about making intentional choices that align with who God says you are, not what the world tries to convince you of. If you allow every negative comment, comparison, or setback to dictate your worth, you will always feel stuck. But when you lead yourself with faith, discipline, and truth, you become unshakable.
How to Lead Yourself Well:
Guard Your Thoughts: Philippians 4:13 reminds us that we are capable through Christ. When negative thoughts creep in, replace them with truth. Say: “I am strong, I am chosen, and I am equipped by God.”
Make Bold Decisions: Stop waiting for permission to walk in your calling. Take that leap of faith, even when it feels scary.
Set Boundaries: Protect your peace by choosing what (and who) you allow into your life.
When you learn to lead yourself with confidence and faith, you set the standard for how you show up in the world.
3. EMPOWER: Speaking Life Into Your Spirit Daily
What you say about yourself matters. Your words create your reality, and the more you speak life-giving affirmations, the more you believe them—and become them.
God’s Word is full of promises that remind you of your strength, purpose, and worth. But if you don’t actively fill your mind with those truths, the world will fill it with doubt.
How to Empower Your Thoughts Daily:
Write & Speak Affirmations: Choose words that align with God’s promises. Say these out loud every morning:
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)“I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” (Psalm 139:14)“God has equipped me for my calling.”
Create a Visual Reminder: Write your affirmations on sticky notes and place them where you’ll see them—your mirror, laptop, or even your phone background.
Surround Yourself with Truth: Read scripture, listen to faith-based podcasts, and be intentional about what you consume.
When you affirm yourself daily with God’s truth, you strengthen your faith, build resilience, and step into the unstoppable woman God created you to be.
It’s Time to Step Into Your Power
You don’t have to stay stuck in fear, doubt, or uncertainty. Through prayer, self-leadership, and daily empowerment, you can transform your mindset and your life.
Philippians 4:13 is not just a verse—it’s a declaration of victory. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Let this be your reminder that God has already given you everything you need to rise, lead, and empower yourself and others.
The best part about this method? You can decide to take new action today:
Start with Prayer: Talk to God about your next steps and invite Him to lead the way.
Lead Yourself Well: Choose faith over fear and take action toward your calling.
Empower Your Mind: Speak truth over your life daily until you believe it fully.I believe in YOU!
Praying, Leading, and Empowering Women with Kelley Tyan
Welcome back to the Significant Women Podcast with Carol McLeod! Carol’s guest today is Kelley Tyan: an inspiring achiever, prayerful woman, proud wife, and mother of two. Kelley has faced significant challenges in life including breast cancer, depression, and grief over family health issues, but amidst the difficulties has managed to become an author, speaker, podcaster, national bikini champion, and leader. Kelley’s mission to pray, lead, and empower has lead her to build vibrant community with other women seeking a meaningful life and an inspiring relationship with God. Tune in for a good dose of encouragement!
Connect with Kelley at https://kelleytyan.com/